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“Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” By Skylee Barring

The quote “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” was first mentioned in the United States Army. It was banned in the mid-2000’s when part of society stopped thinking of gay people in a negative light and instead started to respect their decision to love whomever they wanted. “Don't ask, don't tell” was used as a metaphor to tell gay people, “we won't ask if you are gay, but in return please don't tell us if you are.” President Obama wanted to remove this law because it was unfair and the military was losing service members due to them coming “out of the closet”. Many people starting to protest letting openly gay people into the military, but gay people and gay supporters wouldn't stand for that. They started marching into the streets wearing their uniforms and waving the rainbow flag above their heads to demonstrate their beliefs. Though my beliefs may not align with non supporters of gay rights, it is still important their point of view is understood by others. People must respect both opinions, regardless of beliefs, and treat each other the way we would want to be treated. I can understand why society would be afraid of gay people or the thought of being gay themselves because it’s such a controversial topic across America. Being gay can be intimidating, causing a person to feel alone because their sexual orientation goes against societies “norm”. The fact is, if you’re against gay people and their rights you should try to put yourselves in their shoes and see if that changes your point of view. What if people discriminated against you for being straight? Another reason people may be against gay people is because of various religious beliefs. Why go against your God or your churches values? But, if your religion is against gay people, it is not your place to judge. It is the job of your God or Gods to determine sin. If you don't think being gay is acceptable, my advice would be to allow your God or Gods to handle the situation. It’s possible non-supporters may be scared that someone who is bisexual or gay might be attracted to them, which is understandable because it could be uncomfortable to think someone of the same gender likes you if the feelings are not reciprocated. My view as a straight person on gay people in the military and in general is one of acceptance and understanding. People, in my opinion, should be able to choose who they do and do not love. Personally, I have two moms and go to a school with people who are proud to call themselves bisexual, gay, lesbian, or transgender. I think we are all equals and everyone should have the right to be attracted to whoever they want, regardless of sexual identity. I think in the future I’ll be more open minded to people who are against gays and try to understand their perspective.